Judd Family 'Angry and Hurt' About Ashley's Memoir Shockers

Ashley Judd's shocking memoir telling all about her famous family has her mother, country legend Naomi Judd, and singing sister Wynonna fighting mad.

"How she could betray her own flesh and blood with this disturbed view of what happened is shocking and hurtful," a Judd family insider tells me. "These ugly family accusations should be discussed in private within the family, not printed and sold to the public to make a quick buck."





















Ashley didn't hold anything back, claiming she was sexually abused and left with caregivers who used drugs, highlighting a childhood filled with neglect, abuse and deep depression.

"My mother, while she was transforming herself into the country legend Naomi Judd, created an origin myth for the Judds that did not match my reality," the actress writes. "I loved my mother, but at the same time I dreaded the mayhem and uncertainty that followed her everywhere. I often felt like an outsider observing my mom's life as she followed her own dreams."

Judd also writes that an older man sexually molested her in a pizza place when she was a young girl.

"Naomi and Wynonna have had a strained relationship with Ashley for years," an insider tells me. It was revealed on 'Season 25: Oprah Behind the Scenes' on OWN that Ashley had declined an invite to join her family on Oprah's show.

"This is the final nail in the coffin -- they are very angry and hurt that Ashley would write a book rather than deal with whatever problems they have privately," my source says. Ouch.

Ashley Judd rips media, public for 'nasty' assaults on body image

Let's start by looking at the picture of Ashley Judd, above, and note that many in the media (and the public) have been speculating of late about how she's losing her looks as she ages. As if.

The media (and the public) went into overdrive recently, speculating over one of Judd's recent appearances in which she appeared "puffy faced." She ruined her face with plastic surgery, or Botox, or something similar, the online world crowed.

Now normally, Judd would have ignored all of this. She says she has long since stopped reading about herself in the media -- even the flattering stuff. But then she was called a "cow" and a "pig" and warned that she "better watch out" because her husband "is looking for a second wife." And when the meanness started coming from professional colleagues, she decided she needed to address that which could no longer be ignored.





















Judd penned an elegant, impassioned and meticulously crafted article this week for the Daily Beast that bashed the media (and the public) for sexist and ageist attacks that try to belittle women and equate their worth with their looks.

“I choose to address it because the conversation was pointedly nasty, gendered, and misogynistic and embodies what all girls and women in our culture, to a greater or lesser degree, endure every day, in ways both outrageous and subtle,” she wrote.

The assault on Judd comes at a time when it has been seemingly declared open season on women's body size. Songbird Adele has been criticized for her full figure. The woman of the hour -- Jennifer Lawrence, the star of the mega hit "Hunger Games" -- finds herself defending her womanly curves. And Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition cover model Kate Upton has been called too big and told she'd never warrant a spot on the Victoria's Secret runway.

The worst offenders, suggested Judd, are women themselves.
"That women are joining in the ongoing disassembling of my appearance is salient," the Harvard-educated Judd wrote in the piece, which has been skyrocketing around the Internet, making her name one of the most searched for terms on Google on Tuesday.

These body image attacks, Judd continued, are "subtle, insidious, and never more dangerous than when women passionately deny that they themselves are engaging in it. This abnormal obsession with women’s faces and bodies has become so normal that we.... are unable at times to identify ourselves as our own denigrating abusers, or as abusing other girls and women."

Judd, 43, says the puffy face was the result of a persistent sinus infection that required several rounds of steroids, which in turn led to the bloated appearance.

When she's not starring in films or TV shows -- like her new ABC drama "Missing," Judd is active in humanitarian and philanthropic works and travels the globe fighting poverty, illness and AIDS.

Perhaps we should be focusing on Judd's face -- as the new face of feminism.

Ashley Judd Slams Media For Body Shaming Women

Actress Ashley Judd has managed a rare and important feat. She turned cruel and inaccurate criticism about her appearance into a teachable moment, calling out both men and women for participating in a system of patriarchy that objectifies women, hyper-sexualizes girls and degrades women’s sexuality as they age.














“If this conversation about me is going to be had, I will do my part to insist that it is a feminist one, because it has been misogynistic from the start,” Judd wrote in a column on The Daily Beast, which was published yesterday afternoon.

Judd, 43, who has been acting in movies and on TV since the early ‘90s and now stars in new ABC series Missing, became the subject of tabloid speculation in March after she appeared on a Canadian talk show with a “puffier-than-normal face.” Several media outlets suggested she’d had plastic surgery that made her look worse and unnatural, despite that her rep Cara Tripicchio called the rumors “unequivocally not true.” Tripicchio explained that Judd had been battling a sinus infection and flu and was on a heavy dose of medication that likely caused facial swelling.